You guys are absolutely going to get off on this new video from Man Royale that was recently released.
I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed.
You I think are ok with that.
It has just made me realize that these formulas a lot of us Mormons learn growing up about how to have a happy marriage are, well, crap. The sons inevitably went inactive later in life.
If you go yourself, you'll see - those people are good people. They are just really convinced they are right.